It is normal for the society to view guys as bad. Especially for the asian culture. Guys are well known for being unfaithful towards love and tends to be cheat in a relationship more easily.
Guys are bad because they can separate sex and love. As for the ladies, sex and love come together.
As argue by the guys, for some guys, love sometimes do come with sex but after the sex.
I wasn't really sure about that. There is no point for me to argue or justify anything here as I am just another ordinary guy and I won;t know what I will do in future.
When I was a small boy, the thing I learn is I get to own the things I like and love. As I grow older, I learn that there are things that we can;t own it even though we love them. I also learned that admiration, like, and love are all three very different things. Very different. In life, a lot of people tend to get confused with these three things with their feelings and thus made life complicated.
Life wasn't that complicated in the past. Girls aren't allow to mingle and the telecommunications are that advance. Right now, everyone is free to communicate and mingle with each other. Feelings among us tend to get more complicated. It is beneficial because we all gets more choices but it also creates more problem and complicate things.
Things should just be simpler.
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Hidden Meanings
In life, things aren't as simple as what we can see from the surface. In this blog, I had mentioned this a few times because that is what I think about this world. We prefer to see things simple because all of us are lazy or we just hate troubles.
Let's say,
You know a friend who is very tough, most of the time within them they are weak and it is the opposite for those people who we think they are weak.
Is this true? We are all familiar about this sayings. But I have another view. This might be derived from our expectations. It is simple, a friend of you had been tough all the time, it is natural that you will expect him to be tough and when once awhile he he is not up to your expectation and you will start to think that he is weak within him.
Well, people will always believe that they want. This is just another way of viewing things that are happening around us.
What do I believe in life?
I believe that there is another reasons for anything that happened around us. I believe that things aren't that simple.
Let's say,
You know a friend who is very tough, most of the time within them they are weak and it is the opposite for those people who we think they are weak.
Is this true? We are all familiar about this sayings. But I have another view. This might be derived from our expectations. It is simple, a friend of you had been tough all the time, it is natural that you will expect him to be tough and when once awhile he he is not up to your expectation and you will start to think that he is weak within him.
Well, people will always believe that they want. This is just another way of viewing things that are happening around us.
What do I believe in life?
I believe that there is another reasons for anything that happened around us. I believe that things aren't that simple.
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Punishment
The best punishment to be instilled on a man is neither death nor taking away all his things but to instil guiltiness into him. Let him carry it for the entire life. There is no other way than to make him feel worst than that.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Dedicated
Cuban is the original place for the cocktail Mojito. It was also considered as one of the cocktails that every bartender should know. The citrus, blend in with the minty and sweet taste is not easy to make.
My co-worker, friend, Marlon took around 9 months to perfect the drink. 9 months just to perfect a drink that seem simple to make.
Yesterday I was delighted as both my manager, Martin, and Marlon taught me a lot of things. Learned two cocktails and they are the Sex on the Beach, and Sour. Sex on the Beach might have different variation to it, but I will definitely try them out to see what is the difference.
Shaking was said to played an important part in cocktail making. Shake and roll differ depending on the type of spirit we use. Breaking the ice or having it dilute faster might destroy the taste for some spirits while at the same time will be able to soften the taste for the others.
Making a cocktail need dedication to it.
"If you want to be a bartender that make drinks for everyone then follow by the book. But if you are going to make it special then you will have to use replace the ingredients in the book with high quality ingredients."
- Martin
I agree with this saying. Marlon also told me something that caught my attention, while shaking the cocktail, we have to put a bit of heart into it. It is amazing to discover the art of making as well as enjoy these drinks.
While drinking sour, we have to drink with the foam together. The foam actually make the drink smoother.
My co-worker, friend, Marlon took around 9 months to perfect the drink. 9 months just to perfect a drink that seem simple to make.
Yesterday I was delighted as both my manager, Martin, and Marlon taught me a lot of things. Learned two cocktails and they are the Sex on the Beach, and Sour. Sex on the Beach might have different variation to it, but I will definitely try them out to see what is the difference.
Shaking was said to played an important part in cocktail making. Shake and roll differ depending on the type of spirit we use. Breaking the ice or having it dilute faster might destroy the taste for some spirits while at the same time will be able to soften the taste for the others.
Making a cocktail need dedication to it.
"If you want to be a bartender that make drinks for everyone then follow by the book. But if you are going to make it special then you will have to use replace the ingredients in the book with high quality ingredients."
- Martin
I agree with this saying. Marlon also told me something that caught my attention, while shaking the cocktail, we have to put a bit of heart into it. It is amazing to discover the art of making as well as enjoy these drinks.
While drinking sour, we have to drink with the foam together. The foam actually make the drink smoother.
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
摘星之旅
Life is too complicated. Leading a life by yourself is much more simple.
The title above is the title for a TVB drama. Another awesome series I would say. Portrait the life of different people living in the same world.
It might be the same old thing,
Good VS Evil
Love VS Hatred
Lovers VS Friends
Family, Friends, and etc....
My mum might be right about leading a simple life. If I am to lead a simple life, I will open a cosy bar with BBQ facilities at a beach. Everyday enjoy the sun rise and sun set looking at people playing happily right beside the beach.
If I am to do that, I will be sorry to my family who had hope that we would achieve something more in life.
Life is full of dilemma, I told my mum that I wanted to climb higher and reach out to somewhere higher and yet she say she hope that we would lead a normal and simple life.
Argh..
Someone please direct me to what I want. I am lack of motivation now. Emotional. Weird.
Hmm. I can't hope for that. I am Sam and I will know what I want. Right now I just want to go to a place and look at the stars. Maybe with a friend and a few cans of beer. It will be awesome. I just want to lie down there and have a good sleep under the starry night. Enjoy the night breeze and be rewarded with a few sweet dreams.
The title above is the title for a TVB drama. Another awesome series I would say. Portrait the life of different people living in the same world.
It might be the same old thing,
Good VS Evil
Love VS Hatred
Lovers VS Friends
Family, Friends, and etc....
My mum might be right about leading a simple life. If I am to lead a simple life, I will open a cosy bar with BBQ facilities at a beach. Everyday enjoy the sun rise and sun set looking at people playing happily right beside the beach.
If I am to do that, I will be sorry to my family who had hope that we would achieve something more in life.
Life is full of dilemma, I told my mum that I wanted to climb higher and reach out to somewhere higher and yet she say she hope that we would lead a normal and simple life.
Argh..
Someone please direct me to what I want. I am lack of motivation now. Emotional. Weird.
Hmm. I can't hope for that. I am Sam and I will know what I want. Right now I just want to go to a place and look at the stars. Maybe with a friend and a few cans of beer. It will be awesome. I just want to lie down there and have a good sleep under the starry night. Enjoy the night breeze and be rewarded with a few sweet dreams.
Night people. and sweet dreams.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Malaysian~~
A person that everyone should look upon to. A strong and dedicated person who fight for what he believes. This is life should be. We should fight for our dream regardless of what others think about us.
This guy is LEGENDARY. AWESOME!!
Malaysia is where I come from but I do not have the spirit to fix that country. This guy has the guts and courage to do it. He had all my support. What I can only do I fleet to another country to start another life hoping that it will bring a better future for my family. He stay and fight for our country.
I am not that awesome. I know I am selfish.
You said it...
You said it. What you had said really got into me. That is very scary. I thought those aren't the reasons for me to be that emotional. But it might have played a part in it.
You said that I am responsible, I always know what to do, a perfectionist, and so on. You said that you like being with me. You said that you feel that you understand me and yet I seem different in other ways.
You ask me why I can't accept you. Is it because I have someone else in my mind? I took a few minutes to think about that and there is no one in my mind. Is it because I just don't like you? Might be, you might not have been my type of girls.
The facts that you said you seem to be able to understand me kinda attracted me for a moment but not for long.
I was thinking about the above subject in the morning while I was in my friend's car heading to city for my air ticket. I was half asleep in the car.
You said that I am responsible, I always know what to do, a perfectionist, and so on. You said that you like being with me. You said that you feel that you understand me and yet I seem different in other ways.
You ask me why I can't accept you. Is it because I have someone else in my mind? I took a few minutes to think about that and there is no one in my mind. Is it because I just don't like you? Might be, you might not have been my type of girls.
The facts that you said you seem to be able to understand me kinda attracted me for a moment but not for long.
I was thinking about the above subject in the morning while I was in my friend's car heading to city for my air ticket. I was half asleep in the car.
Monday, September 20, 2010
A whole new DAY!!
Waiting for the ride to the city to collect my air ticket to CHINA!
It will definitely be a whole new experience for me to "work" at a foreign place. Australia is no longer foreign for me.
9 hours of sleep really going to make my day today. AWESOME!
It will definitely be a whole new experience for me to "work" at a foreign place. Australia is no longer foreign for me.
9 hours of sleep really going to make my day today. AWESOME!
The Train Ride
As usual, the same train ride from Melbourne Central to Clayton railway station. The ride will take around 35 minutes and tonight ride seem different from before. I always take the train whenever I visit the city, lately I took the ride more often as I am working in the city.
Tonight, the train ride seem different. It seems longer than usual. However, the time in my watch state that it took about the same amount of time. Time seem slower tonight in the train. I took the 10.30pm train from Melbourne central. Sat in a corner in one of the carriages of the train. The train was packed with people. At that moment. the scene seems familiar. The scene seem to be taken out from some movie where the main character sat down quietly in a corner with a lot of people in the train talking to each other. However, the whole atmosphere was dead quiet for him as the voices did not reach his ears at that moment. This time I was the main character.
With a heavy feeling, I gazed through the window into the dark night. In life, you may get a lot of friends but quality friends only come in a very small number. Tonight I had reached a breaking point. Usually I am able to hold the feelings but tonight emotion got me. It seems that I had similar situations in the past before. Everything just kept flashing in my mind and I couldn't take it any more and needed somewhere to throw them in.
From the flashes, these feelings that I had before was back in 2007 after I sent my best friend off to England to study at KLIA. The drive home in the car is indeed a long drive. The second time will be when I left Australia for the first time for my studies. This time will be when, my Taiwan friend leaving Melbourne. Seem like it will be take a long time for me to meet up with them again.
This is life. An ending to an event marks a beginning of something new. Even the longest felt railway will reach its destination.
Tonight, the train ride seem different. It seems longer than usual. However, the time in my watch state that it took about the same amount of time. Time seem slower tonight in the train. I took the 10.30pm train from Melbourne central. Sat in a corner in one of the carriages of the train. The train was packed with people. At that moment. the scene seems familiar. The scene seem to be taken out from some movie where the main character sat down quietly in a corner with a lot of people in the train talking to each other. However, the whole atmosphere was dead quiet for him as the voices did not reach his ears at that moment. This time I was the main character.
With a heavy feeling, I gazed through the window into the dark night. In life, you may get a lot of friends but quality friends only come in a very small number. Tonight I had reached a breaking point. Usually I am able to hold the feelings but tonight emotion got me. It seems that I had similar situations in the past before. Everything just kept flashing in my mind and I couldn't take it any more and needed somewhere to throw them in.
From the flashes, these feelings that I had before was back in 2007 after I sent my best friend off to England to study at KLIA. The drive home in the car is indeed a long drive. The second time will be when I left Australia for the first time for my studies. This time will be when, my Taiwan friend leaving Melbourne. Seem like it will be take a long time for me to meet up with them again.
This is life. An ending to an event marks a beginning of something new. Even the longest felt railway will reach its destination.
No one like losing things. Especially when it comes to be separated with people you cherish. One of the moment that I hate the most but yet life goes on.
Emotion can really be hard to hold back. How come I can;t hold back this time? Too tired? I thought it is because the date is 19th September. Well, after the clock strike 12 and the date changed to 20th September, I realised that it is not because of the date.
Is it because about what happened few days ago that had even become the reason that I can;t sleep for the whole night? Nah, I can handle those stuff easily. I even had forgotten about them.
I am tired now. Tomorrow, I will still have to go to the city again to get my air ticket to China. China tour and intern. I will miss my friends. They had been awesome. In life, I have gotta admit, it is not easy to meet awesome people that you really like to spend time with. Today my friend said something that made me realize, "It doesn't matter where you travel to and what you had done, it is about who you have been with and those memories count.".
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Really?
It is amazing. I am amazed with the things you had said about me. They might be right and might be wrong. For me myself don't really know the true answer about me. I am still on the way on discovering the true me.
This is me. A perfectionist that will always try to seek for a way to be better than the others and learn from the best.
This is me. A perfectionist that will always try to seek for a way to be better than the others and learn from the best.
For what you had said about me made me sleepless for the whole night. Maybe I am going through sleepless night again as the weather began to change warmer. My adrenalin is all pumped up again for more action.
Sleeping is a waste of time. Just now, getting a two shot of latte with no sugar from Emily really make my night. Imagine being sleepless for more than 36 hours? I would say awesome.
Later on I will try on the sleep cycle. It was said that a sleep cycle take about 110 minutes. Hope that it is true. It will then be useful for me to maximise my life in the future.
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Lost Something?
Right now, what kind of person am I?
If I lost something on my way, I will not waste my time looking for it. Keep moving forward and let things be.
Right now, I am that person.
If I lost something on my way, I will not waste my time looking for it. Keep moving forward and let things be.
Right now, I am that person.
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Barney and Ted
For those who had watched the series, "How I met Your Mother" would have known about these two characters. Two best friends with different lifestyle.
Lately I had found out that it is easy for me to lead Barney way of life instead of Ted. It is easier to lead a life with no responsibilities. But can we do that?
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Woke Up.
Now I finally woke up at 6am. I managed to wake myself up from the lazy and slack lifestyle. Went to gym and then got myself a cup of Green Tea Latte.
Right now I am at the computer lab going to do my work. I will finish up my part for the Bridge Analysis report.
Seem AWESOME!!. Well, I did not sleep for the whole night and now I am surprised that I still feel awake.
Right now I am at the computer lab going to do my work. I will finish up my part for the Bridge Analysis report.
Seem AWESOME!!. Well, I did not sleep for the whole night and now I am surprised that I still feel awake.
Fragile Love
"Love is fragile. And we're not always its best caretakers. We just muddle through and do the best we can. And hope this fragile thing survives against all odds."
- Steve Miller
- Steve Miller
Stagnant.
Life has been pretty stagnant for me lately. Boring. Boring uni. Boring job.
At least today I had a very good conversation with a friend. It made the day a bit interesting.
Few days ago, I am grateful that you gave me a solution to my problems. Seem like it is true when we are at a different place from home, we will definitely change. I have change. I am not like the person I used to be and I am not the person I hoped to be.
Somehow I don't find that bothering me. I am casual. Maybe too casual.
Being casual is good. You won't get hurt but you will disappoint the people around of you from time to time. But being boring sucks.
Saturday, I will definitely pay Syn Bar a visit. Time to try a whole new different lifestyle.
At least today I had a very good conversation with a friend. It made the day a bit interesting.
Few days ago, I am grateful that you gave me a solution to my problems. Seem like it is true when we are at a different place from home, we will definitely change. I have change. I am not like the person I used to be and I am not the person I hoped to be.
Somehow I don't find that bothering me. I am casual. Maybe too casual.
Being casual is good. You won't get hurt but you will disappoint the people around of you from time to time. But being boring sucks.
Saturday, I will definitely pay Syn Bar a visit. Time to try a whole new different lifestyle.
Monday, September 6, 2010
Continuation...
As I had promised, I have a post that will explained on my choice on the last post. Experience VS Knowledge.
I will take both of them. They are both equal important to me. By having both of them only we will be able to advance forward faster.
Maybe that is the who I am. This is not being greedy. Prefer to be prepare. There is a saying,"Always be prepare and never have the opportunity rather than you are not prepare and have to face the opportunity.".
I will take both of them. They are both equal important to me. By having both of them only we will be able to advance forward faster.
Maybe that is the who I am. This is not being greedy. Prefer to be prepare. There is a saying,"Always be prepare and never have the opportunity rather than you are not prepare and have to face the opportunity.".
Thursday, September 2, 2010
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