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Wondering

All of us wonder.. I wonder too much..

There are times, even though your stories do not end happily, be grateful. Somehow, in another part of the world, someone else's stories have a beautiful ending.

The simplest way to be happy is do not ask anything for yourself. Just pray and hope that others have what they want and they are happy with their life.

There are times I always ask myself whether am I a selfish person?

Wishing for The Impossible

Impossible? Well, Maybe I always wish for the impossible, but I also have confidence that I can make the impossible possible. There are times I might fail in reaching out to what I want. But I do learn something out of it. There are times, I will go for it again and again depends on the situations.

The above video by WongFu. It is true. Everything relationship begins with strangers and ended up being strangers again.

Stage 1: Strangers
stage 2: The Chase
Stage 3: Honeymoon
Stage 4: Comfortable
Stage 5: Tolerance
Stage 6: Downhill
Stage 7: Breaking Up

It is easy to say that breaking up isn't always going to be sad. I mean being sad is natural for all but it is also a mark of a new beginning. Everything has always depend on how we see it. People often ask me why am I not in a relationship.

"That friend of yours is pretty and she is single."
"You always hang out with her and why not?"

Well, my space has been reserved for the one I think is special for me.

To those people outside who thinks that break out sucks and it is the end of your life... Read the quote below and think again. Taken from the short clip. You don;t have to force yourself to forget them but just be thankful for it in the future.

“If life separates us & we end up in totally different places, I’ll always remember when our paths aligned for this period of time, & I’ll be thankful for that. & I hope that wherever you are, you’ll be thankful too.”

I have more to say. From the clip there is another things I had always agree on. During stage 4, I would usually call it the comfort zone where people will start to take things for granted. Beside being a couple, even friendship and family, we all tend to do that. It would eventually lead to what people might take it as, we are using the other person regardless of who they are but we are comfortable with them. Good or bad? It depends. Personally, I would hope that I will not take things for granted. Maybe that is why I prefer to stand by myself and work things out.

Lately, I have lots to write. There are a lot to write. Am I being emotional again? I hope not. emotion is the spark to being weak. I must learn to control them.

Two Ways

In life, the street is a two way thing.

How I start my day?

Never start your morning in a rush. It just spoilt your mood for the entire day later on. Well, it doesn't always work as there are times you had partied hard the day before so....

Still, I always wake up earlier than I need to.

I like to wake up in a warm blanket of a cold morning. With my laptop right by my side, I will definitely browse my Facebook. WHY?? To stalk people??

Nah, look for some news songs in Facebook. It is awesome that lots of friends love to share new songs or old songs in Facebook. Listening to some random good songs can really make my day.

By Moby,


By Charice,


By Bruno,


Btw, yesterday I had just watch another alright movie I would say. The quote of the week,
"When your life is on the line, that is when you learn more about yourself".

Not to forget another EPIC video...

Party?

"Keep Partying"

Someday, we will have to stop that. Party is fun. However a man can't keep partying for his whole life. There will be the time when he has to settle down.

In current era, settling down seem to be the hardest things to do. Most would say a man would settle down when they have met the one girl that they should have. Maybe.

What is the meaning of settling down?

I don;t really get that. Maybe it is not my time yet. To me, I will do what I have to do. I will pour all my dedication into things I do and hold up tight to my responsibility.

Why do I even start blogging again? Maybe someone reminded me that I haven't been updating my blog for a long time. It is time for me to get a new laptop and a new camera. Soon I will start blogging from bars that I visit. It will be a whole new collection. My thoughts and emotions in the bars will be something different.

Home

Home to my blog. Life has been hectic again it seems for me. However, time management is crucial. There is no such thing as being busy and have no time for certain things. Finally I am home early today. Every night for the past few weeks, I am always home either late in the night or early in the morning. Work, visit bars and clubs had been my activities in the night.

Porn has existed long ago. From drawings, to photography, to movies, and now 3D porn on big screen cinema.

SEX and ZEN. A whole new stories with some funny acts along the show. Not to forget soft porn as well. It is only a fairly good movie with me fell asleep twice.

For every movie that you had watched, there will be something that you can learn from it. To me, it would be the Monk. Sad that his 50 years learnings and teachings is all gone in a day. Seeing this remind me of how I should do everything as near perfection as possible and not allowing any mistakes.

A single mistake will in the end destroy all the hard work. Most of the time, the mistakes seem insignificant and small and yet, we tend to neglect them.

My life isn't boring with so many things to do. There are still a lot for me to learn and see. Have been putting everything into work and studies. There are things that i have neglected during this period of time. Slowly I will get use to it and have everything under control.

Responsibilities. I must learn to take them seriously. A guy will have to do what they have to do. Maybe I should have some time off for myself. Time off where I do not have to think about anything even bout chasing my dream. That would be nice. Time off where I can slowly pull myself back and cherish my past and contemplate about my future.

Nah, should not even care about my past and future but enjoy the present. Solely, just for the present.

Past, present, and future, they are equally important. "Do not forget the past, enjoy the present, look forward to the future."

It is the same, right and wrong is equally as important. Being always right seem perfect, but life isn't perfect. Being wrong once a while let us grow and make us realise what is right.

It is all about balance. "Work seriously, play insanely".

Part of me love challenges and competition, while the other part of me love being lazy and peace. There are times I would love to do good in both civil and bartending, and there are times I would love to open up a nice venue where I can just serve people from behind the bar.