Wishing for The Impossible

Impossible? Well, Maybe I always wish for the impossible, but I also have confidence that I can make the impossible possible. There are times I might fail in reaching out to what I want. But I do learn something out of it. There are times, I will go for it again and again depends on the situations.

The above video by WongFu. It is true. Everything relationship begins with strangers and ended up being strangers again.

Stage 1: Strangers
stage 2: The Chase
Stage 3: Honeymoon
Stage 4: Comfortable
Stage 5: Tolerance
Stage 6: Downhill
Stage 7: Breaking Up

It is easy to say that breaking up isn't always going to be sad. I mean being sad is natural for all but it is also a mark of a new beginning. Everything has always depend on how we see it. People often ask me why am I not in a relationship.

"That friend of yours is pretty and she is single."
"You always hang out with her and why not?"

Well, my space has been reserved for the one I think is special for me.

To those people outside who thinks that break out sucks and it is the end of your life... Read the quote below and think again. Taken from the short clip. You don;t have to force yourself to forget them but just be thankful for it in the future.

“If life separates us & we end up in totally different places, I’ll always remember when our paths aligned for this period of time, & I’ll be thankful for that. & I hope that wherever you are, you’ll be thankful too.”

I have more to say. From the clip there is another things I had always agree on. During stage 4, I would usually call it the comfort zone where people will start to take things for granted. Beside being a couple, even friendship and family, we all tend to do that. It would eventually lead to what people might take it as, we are using the other person regardless of who they are but we are comfortable with them. Good or bad? It depends. Personally, I would hope that I will not take things for granted. Maybe that is why I prefer to stand by myself and work things out.

Lately, I have lots to write. There are a lot to write. Am I being emotional again? I hope not. emotion is the spark to being weak. I must learn to control them.