Life being decided by death

" Life being decided by death. "

As I post that pm up, one of my friend popped in and asked wasn't it the other way around.

" Death being decided by life. "

Yea, it should be the other way around. The first caught my attention as I was browsing around. I posted it up because I somehow feel like I understand that phrase very well. 

Well, we should appreciate and cherish our life and let our life decide our death instead of the other way around.

What is sex?

僕ら何千回　泣いても　きっともう一回　乗り越える
不器用なフリして　逃げちゃだめだろう
そんなことくらい　わかるだろう
今が最終回　最後のチャンス　失敗したって　恐くない
悲しさも　せつなさも　愛しさも　いつか癒せるさ

泣いて泣いて泣いた　日々を背に　僕らもう一回　強くなれ
臆病なフリして　逃げちゃだめだろう
そんなことくらい　わかるだろう
きっと何万回　倒れても　きっともう一回　乗り越える
君の声　届くだろう　どこまでも　ずっとまっすぐに
~Tears~

What is sex without love?
SEX is SEX.
Caught the Q&A from a comedy. Have been laughing my ass off while watching the comedy. It was hilarious. The name of the movie is "Good Luck Chuck". Interesting movie and maybe you guys should catch it when you are free. It is a good movie even if you take out all the titties scene.

Ok. Forget bout the movie intro. This is just another random post I think. I should be off sleeping and I am tired now.

However, there is also another line which got from the movie.

"What is yours is yours. No matter what happen it will come back to you if it yours."

Believe 中 の "lie"

The title. I got it from a blogger. It was sort of the 10 things she wrote from a website. I found that they are pretty true and except for this one which i don't really understand. Does it means that even though we believe someone, they will lso lie to us at times which we should just ignore it even though we know bout it? Haha.

Today's been a lovely day. Raining heavily for the whole day. Slept for the whole day. Well, I also did schedule up my next week schedule as well as chat with my parents. A day of sleep will really restore myself after a hectic week. 

Before this, I do have things that I wanted to post on the blog. Interesting things I would say. It is weird that I ca't remember any of them right now. Seems like I will have to save them for some other time when they popped up again.

Right now I shall get back to sleep again or I won't e able to wake up later for my game.

你能分清楚爱和喜欢吗?

喜歡和愛咫尺千里。

當你喜歡一個人時，你想和他在一起，因為他會帶給你快樂；

離開後，你會想念，想著想著就會笑，然後繼續你平靜的生活，並期待著與他再一次重逢。

當你愛一個人時，你想和他在一起，那是一種牽腸掛肚的捨不得，怕他受委屈，怕他不能好好照顧自己；

離開後，你也會想念，想著想著歎一口氣，'不知他現在過的怎樣？'

然後你繼續你平靜的生活，希望他早日回到你身邊。

你喜歡的人在你眼中是天使，無所不能，他總會滿足你的任性的要求。

你愛的人在你眼中是孩子，傻傻的，你不期望他做出什麼'好事'來，只一味縱容他那些讓人哭笑不得的舉動。

你會希望你喜歡的人陪著你，然而你心中想的可能是你愛的人；

你會希望陪在你愛的人身邊，看他在你面前睡得如此安逸甜美毫不設防的樣子，你會微笑，會覺得好幸福。

你喜歡的人傷害了你，你會生氣，並且一定要讓他哄著騙著逗你笑你才原諒他；

你愛的人傷害了你，你只會獨自傷心，因為你怕對他大吼大叫會嚇著他，你憂傷地微笑著，看著他的眼睛，

一旦發現他的眼裡流露出歉意和悔恨，你會立即心疼地摟他在懷裡，那一刻，你也是幸福的。

你可以同時喜歡很多人，你會希望和很多人在一起，

但也許很多年後你才發現，原來你愛的就只有那麼一個，

就那麼一個，怎麼都不會變，你以為把他忘記了，其實只是忙的沒空想起而已，

對於你喜歡的人，你關注的是他的優點；

對於你愛的人，你關注的是他的缺點，並且，那些缺點如果無關原則的話，它們在你眼裡是可愛的，獨一無二的。

喜歡和愛其實只有一紙之隔，任何愛都從喜歡開始，當有天你突然發現，你喜歡的那個人在你眼中不再完美，

而他的瑕疵正如月中的桂影一般讓你更加依依不捨，你會覺得與他光彩照人的一面相比，

你更願意看他在你面前無助的表情，不知道是不是應該祝賀你，總之，你的感情昇華了
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仰慕不是愛，甚至不是喜歡，當你對一個人只有仰慕之情時，你們在一起便失去了和諧。

有人說愛一個人很累，的確是，因為你想為他承擔，可是愛與喜歡相比最大的魅力就在於，

當你和愛的人在一起時，你的感覺就像回家了！

Comment

この時代に
生まれてきた限り
この腕で　この胸で　今　受けとめよう
愛を信じて

~ quote in Japanese randomly

Comment. Everyone like to comment on the things they see. Yea, I like to give comments as well. Lately, I just realised that the comments I gave is actually weird. I tend to balance up the comments. For example, if someone criticised an objects, I will tend to give positive comments bout it. If someone tend to give positive comments then I will be giving out negative comments. Rebellious? I don't think I am, I think I just like to balance things out. My friend comment for this is that I am a Libra. Libra likes to balance things out and seek for peace and justice. Seem like I would be better as a lawyer. 

Notice that I am able to type in Japanese. It is not hard. Lately, I have to memorise Chinese words and also polish my Catonese. It wasn't easy. I learned Mandarin language like 12 years ago. Now, I have to learn to write them as well. Lately, I find that I am slowly forgeting the Malaya language which I don't mind at all. In the same time I am improving my Japanese, and learning Hokkien dialects as well. I have friends who actually want me to learn French so that I can visit Mauritius someday. Seem like the amount of language I am going to learn will be sufficient for me to be a translator in future. I will be having another option in my career in future.

In Australia, the amount of immigrants coming over is overwhelming that this country is filled with people from different countries. In a day, it is not surprising that the amount of different languages heard can be more than 4. Mandarin, English, Indian, Korean, Japanese, Greek and etc. Since I am here, I do have people thinking that I am from Hong Kong, China, Malaysia, and Singapore. I am wondering. Where do I belong? Haha. Well, my frined's mum was wondering why I am picking up Hong Kong style during my stay over here. Not bad. I don't mind being mistaken as a HongKie though. ^^

Boardings

The distanced travelled

The distanced travelled on 

longboards. Total is 43.3 km. It was a good experienced. Time taken was around 4.5 hours. I am still a noob. Slowed down the whole journey but I still managed to make my way to the city. 

If I am in it then I will make sure I can do it. ^^

Longboarding. It is not hard to learn. 

Well. Ignore the injuries. They are nothing. Soon, I will post up the close-up on my wounds. Not with bandages on.

When I first learn, I find it hard. Not easy to balance on the board. Having trouble to move around with it. There are two things which we have to learn while we longboard. They are, never be afraid to fall and go with the flow. Something that I always said to my friends last time but I never really implement them in myself till I learn longboarding. When I leard longboarding I was finally be able to understand the two phrase I always tell other people. Especially the one "Go with the flow". People use to say that I am good at "Tao Kai" meaning I am lucky. Well I still remmeber that there is a friend who asked me this, "Sam, did you planned them? I don't think you can get so lucky all the time.". "Well, I am just lucky," I replied. It is not true. Most of the time I did gave them a thought. Thinking how they might end up to be. Afraid of falling.

Now, I know that falling is just part of our life. Even though it was painful, we learn more from falling. Well, most of the time the pain doesn't go away in one or two days. For exampe, my wounds. they have been haunting me for few days now and they are still painful. We will have to endure them and learn to strife for the best in future. For my case now will be longboarding. This storied can practically be applied into our life. Helping us to achieve our goals and dreams. Just keep climbing back up and positioned ourself well after falling.

From the longboarding yesterday, the 34 km along the beach from Mordialloc to City, I also hurt my ankle, my wrist and got sunburnt all over. Felt all that when I was waking up this morning.

Group picture taken beside the beach.

Well, it was fucken awesome. Two trips totalled to more than 70 km in three days. From the pictre, seem like I have to go for a haircut. ^^

Extreme

Extreme. How extreme can I go? 

I am very tired today. Boarded for another 30+ km along the beach again. Muscle aching, joints hurting and the injuries. 

I better sleep early though. Haha. ^^